hahah.. kelakar pulak title entry nih, rojak! tak kisah lah.. nway since yaya already asked how the interview went like, i think i'll just tell it here.
when i heard about the ultimatum confirmation of our contract, of course as a working mommy i have to think of my precious alif and prioritize his needs more than anything else. so, here are my preferences :
to work 8-5 (6 at most),
5 days a week,
less critical (need not to bring home unsettled office work),
paid accordingly to my expertise in delivering my job (more RM is welcomed :P)
hehe looks like a dream job for everyone, yes? the thing is that now i had become less ambitious, i don't mind doing a lousy job (read:being scolded by endusers every now and then) as long as i could go home after work and forget everything about work when i'm with my family. basically i've been doing the lousy job for the past 5 years. so when the employer(which directly am now representing them) offers to hand in resume, i obliged not wanting to face the uncertainty. hey i think now that my ears have gone tebal, why not?
and, they've called for an interview yesterday evening. i'd say it went quite OK minus the part where they ask you std-HR Qs like, 'tell me about yourself' and 'how do you see yourself in 3 yrs time'. so crap! and they give ideas that if they hire us we's be the happiest person on earth and should be grateful for the rest of our life. honestly am not hoping too much because i love my boss & colleagues & have no issues with my current employer, seriously.
happy belated birthday to my SIL, salwa who turns 27 yesterday. sorry darling, forgot to check the Ringo reminder :) many happy returns! God bless you. moga cepat² dapat baby *hint *hint
because of the interview and hubby was having a meeting , we fetch alif quite late. and alif got his 5th (or was it 6th) bitemark! the kindy teacher said alif didn't fought back, that's why he always be the victim. yes, these incidents been happening for the past 3 months, i think. the teacher told me that the
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Alif kena buli ker? Ish ish, kesian, nak i sue these ppl ker? hahahah
kalau i dah paranoid dah my son kena camtu heheh..even sometimes bile we all pegi makan kat mc D or any fast food restaurants yg ada playground tu kan kalau anak i kena buli jee i dah start bengang sket dah ngan parents die or guardian moreover if the kids purposely did it...maybe u should talk to the nursery teacher
aiyoo my ofis mate ask me why in the world would u go to your blog, hahahah i guess bini die dah report la tu..
hot mama: sue diorg 5 juta la..due to negligence.. pastu duit tuh i boleh bukak bisnes makan & invest. pastu boleh jaga alif kat rumah..bestnyaa!! lawyer fee baper ye? ade dicsount? :P
LD: i pon pelik why i lebih cool than hubby when it comes to matters like this. i guess i want alif to discover things on his own, be tolerant to others. lagipon cakar & gigit je.. i blamed the teachers & not the notty girl.hopefully the teacher paham² sendiri je la. dulu masa alif kena cakar byk² kat muka, i tanya teachers, kenapa alif punya muka byk scratches? teacher dia kata alif BUAT SENDIRI!! pastu bila SEMUA org lain kena cakar by that notty girl (again) barulah the kindy owner dtg jumpa i & apologized.
I became a bully as a form of defense to protect myself from all the harh words people could say to me about being anak-luar-nikah. So instead of enduring these, I went after them first. That way I was safe. But it made me such a bully that I hurt a lot of kids.
I wonder this means anything to you as mother, ma'am.
bergen, yes i learnt about you being a bully in your blog. first of all, i am sorry that you have to go through obstacles & hardship to survive. different guardian has different way of raising their child(ren). at least your grandma , Aunt , Aunt Su and cousin love you endlessly.
you do things (ie be a bully) that you think is right. kids will behave that way.but i believe as guardians we should discipline the child(ren) from young. of course i'm not certified to tell what is supposed to be done or whether it is right or wrong, it's just my 2 cents.
& yes, your experience means something to me as a mother.
shian lil alif kena bite & scratched! And that's so mean of the kindy ppl to tell you that alif buat sendiri! That one you patut sue!
diah..
biase la..budak2.. dulu mase lya dok nursery dia pun pernah gigit other kid.. la nih..time dia kena gigit. tp syukur lah..sekali jek dia kena gigit sbb lps tu dia punye owner dah pantau aktiviti2 tak sihat nih. tp to tell u the truth..benda nih biase la.. sedangkan kita adik beradik pun mase kecik bercakar, ni plak bile bercampur dgn anak yg bukan darah daging kita. as for me, .. aku pejam mate je la.. sok2 luse mana tahu anak kita lak yg "ter"gigit org lain lak. klu bukan anak yg nih, anak yg seken, third..dan strsnya... who knows?.. tp klu alif kena bite tuh, nnt ko carik bijik buah pala (nutmeg seed), ko asah kat batu asah dan air dia buat sapu.. insya allah.. cepat la hilang kesan dia..
actually kita mmg akan tak puashati kalau org lain jaga anak kita... itulah yg aku rasa..tp nak jadik fulltime housewife (wish to) aku belom cukup ongkos la.
farah, tq for coming here. i'd like to comment on ur blog about rey rey being attacked but cannot cos friendster.com has been blocked. nway back to my entry, am giving final chance to the kindy people. if the attack reoccurs, prolly hubby will them em /meet the girl's parents (cos they always forgot to trim the girl's long nails).
anonymous aka ana,tuh sbb la aku malas nak bising².. sebab dulu aku kecik² dulu pon agaknya notty gak :P tapi buah pala tu memang aku tatau nak carik mana.. aku cuma letak minyak afiat je.. mlm tadi aku check those bites dah jadik itam².. nanti hilang lah tu.. letak vit E la kalau aku rajin
ala sian alif..tp i pun mcm LD,cpt bengang kalu bab2 anak kena buli ni,kat playground pun i yg terover memprotect anak hihi,better ask the teacher to monitor the nasty oopss the naughty girl tu..suruh dia gigit bantal ke,kasut ke hihi-eh tapikan AM,psl kerja tu kita ni sama la,my working enthusiasm pun dah hilang n i dont care doing the lowsy job as long as i boleh blk sharp takyah stayback, zaman gila tunjuk rajin n berdedikasi dah lenyap sejak jadik mak ni!
mommamia,good idea.. suruh dia gigit teether tuh.. hehe takyah gigit org lain dah.. kasut tuh agak melampau la pulak :P yeyeye geng! tapi kalau perlu memang i stayback gak la.. sekali sekala.. lagipon quality that counts not quantity ( selalau i cakap camnih utk pujuk diri sendiri). i think sebab tu lah syurga bawah tapak kaki ibu.. we'd do anything for the child(ren)sake's. hahah :P *puji pompuan lagi.. power to the mommies in the world!
rad..i didn't visit ur blog earlier cos i didn;t know u moved it here! So sorry dear! Sejak jadi mommy..i can be so blur and forgetful..sometimes i don't even know the date today! Mmg gone case lah kwn you sorang nih
ttg bite mark tu, better u bagitau cikgu dia..sbb cikgu tu boleh monitor.at least kita dah amik tindakan awal, takut nanti apa2 hal kemudian hari, nnti dia akan defend diri dia yg kita dulu tak sibuk2 pun nak report nape sekarang baru nak report?
bila anak u ngan cikgu tu, maka cikgu tu kena pastikan anak u selamat terutama drp diusik oleh budak2 lain, biarpun budak..tapi takut2 nanti sedapnya dia membuli.
kalau anak saya, mmg saya bagitau cikgu tu, slow talk lah..jd cikgu tu ada rasa tanggungjawab lebih sikit.ok..
alahai cayang alif, tak reti melawan...satu segi bagusla, tapi satu segi nanti dia asyik kena buli.
farah, i pon always forgetful.. glad u've moved to fotopages.. i boleh komen! :)
syikin, cikgu dia aware alif asyikkena gigit.. tapi saya rasa alif tgh belajar.. now maybe blom tau self defense sgt tapi semlm masa i pegi rumah my friend i nampak anak i pulak monopolize toys anak kawan tu! hahaha tak dela gentleboy sgt.. ngan girls je kot :P he he
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